Biggest fear

strength comes with fear

In any persons life what will be biggest fear
Why it's said that you get angry only on people whom you love most
If there is so much love why anger then, isn't it


Everyone must have thought on this surely
Then we try to answer these questions based on our situations
but we never answer ourselves fully and just try to go away from these questions


Why


Answer is simple though we ask these questions when someone
else does it we know that even we do the same thing


But then why do we do it


Let's try to answer simple question  that why we get angry on people we love most
The person we love the most is the person we depend on completely
We get used to that person so much that we hardly know or care how much that person is important in our life
So we start to take the person for granted so much that we deny the existence of the person as separate
But this cannot happen forever and once that person denies to be taken for and then we get angry
Here still both are loving each other the same way


Why this anger then


Its sense of insecurity in our kind for the person that the person will be denied every time
This is the most basic reason for anger in almost all case


This anger most of the time is unnecessary but human emotion can't help it




But why are we talking about anger for so much time when blog says biggest fear


It's because sense of insecurity causes anger and it's next stage is fear
Actually fear is always there when anger is shown off but never acknowledged


The fear comes into picture when anger doesn't work and makes person lose control


So what is biggest fear for a person other than death


The answer is already there
It's the felling of being rejected from the most loved one


so be careful and think twice before choosing person and surrender emotionally


The biggest strength is biggest fear




Ashish Shevale

व्यक्त

संध्याकाळ ...
दाटलेलं आभाळ
मोर पिसारा फुलवायला
मन भरून नाचायला
पावसात चिंब व्हायला पिसारा फुलवून तयार
तितक्यात तिच्यावर हलकेच सूर्यकिरण ढगांमधून वाट काढून पडतात
आधीच तिचे डोळे पावसासाठी अधीर आता आणखीनच चमकतात
ढगांकडे पावसाचा आनंद व्यक्त करायला विजा आहेत गडगडाट आहे
मोराकडे त्याचं पिसारा आहे
पण तिच्याकडे...
तिच्याकडे तिच सुंदर मोहक लाजणार हसू आहे
फरक फक्त व्यक्त करण्यामध्ये आहे





हे मी vegas मध्ये venetian होटेल मध्ये पाहिलेल्या enchantment चित्राचं वर्णन आहे

Road to destination... live it

 

I received this forwarded mail and found its thoughts to be one sided. So sharing it along with a try to make it complete

Here is the mail

A boat docked in a tiny Goan village. A Tourist from Mumbai, a MBA guy, complimented the Goan fisherman on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took him to catch them.

"Not very long," answered the fisherman.

"But then, why didn't you stay out longer and catch more?" asked the MBA guy .

The Goan fisherman explained that his small catch was sufficient to meet his needs and those of his family.

The MBA guy asked, "But what do you do with the rest of your time?"

"I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, and take a siesta with my wife. In the evenings, I go into the village to see my friends, play guitar, sing a few songs....I have a full life."

The MBA guy interrupted, "I have an MBA from IIM-A, and I can help you!

You should start by fishing longer everyday. You can then sell the extra

fish you catch. With the extra revenue, you can buy a bigger boat."

"And after that?" asked the Goan.

"With the extra money the larger boat will bring, you can buy a second

one and a third one and so on until you have an entire fleet of trawlers.

Instead of selling your fish to a middle man, you can then negotiate

directly with the processing plants and maybe even open your own plant. You

can then leave this little village and move to Panjim, or even Mumbai. From

there you can direct your huge new enterprise."

"How long would that take?" asked the Goan.

"Twenty, perhaps twenty-five years," replied the MBA guy .

"And after that?"

"Afterwards? Well my Friend, That's when it gets really interesting,"

chuckled the MBA guy , "When your business gets really big, you can start

selling stocks and make millions!"

"Millions? Really? And after that?" asked the Goan.

"After that you'll be able to retire, live in a tiny village near the

coast, sleep late, play with your children, catch a few fish, take a siesta

with your wife and spend your evenings doing what you like with your

buddies."

"With all due respect sir, but that's exactly what I am doing now. So

what's the point wasting 25 years?" asked the Goan.

This is where the mail ended

But I felt what could have the MBA guy  answered

So lets hear it too                

The MBA guy said

Its not about resting in a village or spending 'free' evenings that matter at end of life. You can do it at any time although. Its the way you live your life. Its the road and not the destination that matters, because once the destination is reached there is no road to walk on. And this is the most stagnant area of life. So then you will ask should I never reach the destination. The answer is no. Do reach the destination, say yes I did it, enjoy it for a while and then set your next destination. The moment you will stop doing that, you will lose the reason to live

This works for me. Hope you will enjoy it too

Life, How to live… decision is yours

When people talk about life they try to get philosophical because they feel that’s the only way to understand the life. But they forget one thing, no one is interested in understanding what’s life but everyone is interested in how to live it

So without getting philosophical, as its IPL season, let me write in cricket way

Lets say life, of the world as a whole, is a cricket match, maybe a twenty 20, then we all are the part of this match

Now when there is a cricket match, different components of it would have to be considered like from the players, audience, match managers, media, camera-man to even person selling cold drinks to audience.

Everyone here does his/her job for only one thing to survive.

No one can comment on which job is better as everyone is in a job. So, all should be considered equal. But we don’t accept it, isn’t it. A person in audience believes hat he’s better than person selling cold drinks while a player believe that he’s better than person sitting in audience chair. Everyone’s life is exciting and new. Let’s talk about player here.

When a player comes on the playground it’s like his one time chance to prove himself that whatever he has practiced all these years isn’t waste. Even we in life get such rare moments to prove ourselves.

Now our player, Mr. A is on strike and is going to face the bowler. He doesn’t know what type of ball, a short-pitch, full toss or even a beamer, he will have to face. Whatever it is he has to play it. Even we in our life seldom know what we are going to face the very next moment so cannot make ourselves always ready. It’s always the skill at last minute, the skill which we have gained through practice for the whole life and here is the time to use it.

Now there will be two results when Mr. A faces the bowl. Either he plays it, maybe hit a six, or he gets out, maybe clean bowled. If he hits a six, audience will give a huge round of applause. If he is out audience will wait for next man to come on strike.

The truth to be understood, either way match doesn’t ends when player is out of match, only his place is taken by somebody else.

The match goes on till eternity

The only thing that we can do is give our best and live, not survive, life fully considering this is the last moment of our life and we won’t get this chance again.

Money for cricket or arrogance

England’s leading businessman along with famous ex-cricketer has announced for a Twenty-Twenty match whose winner team will get one crore pounds (84 crore rupees) between England and West-Indies.

The fact that cricket is attracting good amount of money is good news in the sports and entertainment industry. But the money offered is only for cricket love or there is different side to it.

The entry of the British businessman in helicopter along with the box of money in cash in press conference suggests that this not only cricket. Years together English people are known for their arrogance. The act again speaks their arrogance.

Why did Britain feel for so much money to be given to cricket now when IPL proved success? The answer is simple. But is that the only thing that matters.

When such news comes we Indians feel like Britain is much better than India and we are living in a very pitiable condition. Many of the leading newspapers and news channel made it big news which the Britain wanted.

In Indian Premier League every sponsor has invested average 400 crore of rupees in each team which sums up to be 3200 crore of rupees only in the team investment. The rest of numbers are better to tell that India has a tremendous amount of money. The Forbes list of Richest people in world has almost five Indians.

People of India still feel that there are countries that are better than us. Yes there are some but if we do not consider ourselves best how others will see us as best. In a local Marathi newspaper of Pune, Mr. Sunil Gavaskar wrote an article on this news which had a title saying

This is the reason English people ruled the world for 150 years.

We Indians have got independence 61 years ago. England could rule us for 150 years is a shameful and not a proud act.

Indians, we are the greatest and talented people in world. Feel like a winner to be one.

Ashish Shevale

Pune.