Biggest fear

strength comes with fear

In any persons life what will be biggest fear
Why it's said that you get angry only on people whom you love most
If there is so much love why anger then, isn't it


Everyone must have thought on this surely
Then we try to answer these questions based on our situations
but we never answer ourselves fully and just try to go away from these questions


Why


Answer is simple though we ask these questions when someone
else does it we know that even we do the same thing


But then why do we do it


Let's try to answer simple question  that why we get angry on people we love most
The person we love the most is the person we depend on completely
We get used to that person so much that we hardly know or care how much that person is important in our life
So we start to take the person for granted so much that we deny the existence of the person as separate
But this cannot happen forever and once that person denies to be taken for and then we get angry
Here still both are loving each other the same way


Why this anger then


Its sense of insecurity in our kind for the person that the person will be denied every time
This is the most basic reason for anger in almost all case


This anger most of the time is unnecessary but human emotion can't help it




But why are we talking about anger for so much time when blog says biggest fear


It's because sense of insecurity causes anger and it's next stage is fear
Actually fear is always there when anger is shown off but never acknowledged


The fear comes into picture when anger doesn't work and makes person lose control


So what is biggest fear for a person other than death


The answer is already there
It's the felling of being rejected from the most loved one


so be careful and think twice before choosing person and surrender emotionally


The biggest strength is biggest fear




Ashish Shevale